We each have more than 30 years’ success fostering positive communication and lasting intimacy. Our focus is on helping frustrated, hurting couples gain new understanding of themselves, their partners and even the world around them. We create a safe space for you to set relationship goals, rebuild your bond and reawaken romance. Unique among therapists, our own marriage is a living, loving laboratory for practicing and perfecting the skills and techniques that we bring to your sessions.
We were in our late 50’s when we met and already had three marriages between us. Some say we were lucky to find each other. Maybe the meeting part was luck, but the staying together? What we have learned in our marriage is that staying together and building a loving connection is a choice. It is one that we make individually every day and the choice is always, “Do I make my partner’s needs and desires my number one priority? Do I care about how my partner is feeling and do I reach out when my partner wants or needs to connect? Do I reach out when I need to connect?” When we both make the other a priority, when we turn toward each other instead of away, we both feel loved and connected. We feel safe and from that place of love and safety, we can do so much in the world.