Exercise: Talking Comfortably About Sex With Your Partner

Talking comfortably about sex to your partner is strongly related to sexual satisfaction. How often couples talk about sex – as well as the quality of the conversation – is correlated with how close couples feel. The best way to open up to your partner is to ask them targeted specific questions. So today, try this exercise:

Below you’ll find downloadable¬†questions developed by the famous sexologist Esther Perel. These questions will guide the two of you through bold, brave and explicit questions, which will enable you to you to talk comfortably about sex. This exercise requires you to set aside some time and randomize the order by which you go through these questions. Take turns asking them of each other.

Good luck and have fun!


20 Questions for Better Sex

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