Emotional Intelligence - Lambert Couples Therapy

Upcoming Webinar Series: Emotional Intelligence: For Men Only

Ever wonder what is the biggest complaint women have about their men?

Women say that men just don’t get it. Women want support, not just solutions. Women want to talk, they want their partner to listen to them, validate their perspectives and show a little vulnerability and empathy.

Basically they want love and connection. For men, this is a little like talking a foreign language. At work, men are rewarded for solving problems, getting things done and working hard. So it makes sense that when they come home they apply the same skill set of being strong, logical and stoic it is perceived by their partners emotionally distant, arrogant, known to their own feelings, and unconcerned about everyone else’s as well as contemptuous of vulnerability and weakness.

Research shows that the higher men go in organizations the more skilled they are in focus competitiveness and drive and the less skilled they are in emotional intelligence. It appears that we reward the skills at work that just don’t work all the time at home.

Men actually want to do whatever it takes to create love and connection, they just don’t know how. They were never taught and because they’ve been conditioned and rewarded for a different skill set they erroneously believe they can kill it at home as they do at work using the same skills.

We find that men just want the playbook. What do I need to do to make my partner happy? That is all I want. Just tell me and I will learn how to do it. They get frustrated because women often expect their partners to just know what to do…

If this resonates at all with you then plan to join us for a very specific 3-part webinar series for creating the love, connection and emotional intimacy that your partner keeps talking about.

Emotional Intelligence: For Men Only – 3-Part Live Webinar Series

Dates: 

  • Sunday, November 1, 2020
  • Sunday, November 8, 2020
  • Sunday, November 15, 2020

Time: 9am – 10am Pacific Time

Cost: $197.00 – includes copy of The Mindful Couple: 52 Weekly Strategies to Real Love and Connection

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