The Stuff You Learn in Couples Therapy
with Craig and Debbie Lambert
with Craig and Debbie Lambert
These are common concerns and frustrations among couples we see in therapy daily.
Not everyone is willing to spend the time and money to come to couples’ therapy but need it desperately. It troubles us how many relationships break up unnecessarily because they do not have the right mindset and skill set to reconnect.
If this sounds familiar, we have created this webinar just for you!
In this 4-hour live webinar, we equip you with key strategies and tools for creating more love and connection in your relationship. We will cover:
Deep listening is the most important skill we can practice to connect with our partner, yet we were never taught how... so instead, we practice not listening which leads to annoyance, anger, and blame. Learn this vital 3-part technique to transform and strengthen all of your relationships.
Conflict is growth trying to happen. Conflict in itself is not terrible, IF couples can navigate it safely. Learn the tools to help you and your partner manage conflict safely in your relationship.
We will explore the powerful and essential topic of how to set loving boundaries in any relationship. Being able to clearly communicate what we want and need from a place of love in a relationship can not only transform the dynamic, it can be empowering and fulfilling.
Creating a specific and clear Relationship Vision builds clarity and excitement about your future together. It also identifies where conflicts may be and allows for planning and compromising so both partners' needs are met. Learn a simple yet super helpful process for creating your own Relationship Vision.
Seeking or asking for your partner's attention is a request for responsiveness - or bid for attention. Learn how important bids for attention are in your relationship, and how to become more tuned in to when your partner is making a bid for connection and attention.
Conflict is bound to happen in relationships, and what's most important after the argument is how you will repair. Learn how to make repairs after — or even during — a conflict. We'll provide a step-by-step process for repairs and model what the process can look like.
Learn about making the shift from blaming to taking responsibility. When you change from blaming to taking responsibility, you move away from anger, frustration and resentment – and into the world of possibility, learning and growth.
Caring behaviors are unconditional gifts we give graciously without an expectation of anything in return. These are the behaviors we hope our partner will give, but they’re also the ones we sometimes blame our partner for not doing. Learn to ask and respond to requests for caring behaviors.
Fill your relationship toolbox with the proven and effective skills to help strengthen and deepen the bond between you and your partner.
Date: Saturday, November 14th, 2020
Time: 9 AM – 1 PM
Details: Upon registering, you will receive the webinar login information. The cost to register is $197 and each registration includes a copy of our book, The Mindful Couple: 52 Weekly Strategies to Real Love and Connection!
A recording of the webinar will also be available after the event.
Craig Lambert, LCSW (License # LCS14003) is dedicated to helping couples rekindle their love, deepen their intimacy and communicate effectively with care and compassion. Craig has successfully worked with hundreds of San Diego couples, helping them to understand and resolve the often unconscious underpinnings of relationship conflict.
Debbie Lambert is a relationship educator and coach with a special talent for helping couples to repair and build healthier relationships. She is also a life coach and pioneer in the field of personal transformation. Debbie is a best-selling author, creator of The Ladder of Love, and has written numerous articles about psychology, personal development and the mind/body/spirit connection.